Victoria Beckham reveals advice that transformed her view on mom guilt
Victoria Beckham has always aspired to be a caring mother
Victoria Beckham mentioned that a discussion with fellow fashion icon Diane von Furstenberg inspired her to rethink feelings of guilt as a mother.
During Tuesday's episode of the "Aspire with Emma Grede" podcast, Beckham touched on the compromises she has to make as a mother with a career.
"The important thing is not to linger on guilt. Just strive to do your best," Beckham shared with podcast hostess Emma Grede.
Sharing insights from a past exchange with von Furstenberg, Beckham spoke about seeking advice on balancing career success with motherhood.
"Her advice was that guilt is an unproductive feeling. It's unnecessary,' von Furstenberg advised. 'And darling, it ages you," Beckham recounted.
"Her perspective was refreshing because, as women, guilt often shadows us. Whether missing a school event or traveling for work, these are part of our lives, and such experiences can inspire our children," Beckham stated.
With David Beckham, Victoria co-parents their four children, and emphasizes that managing career and home has been a joint effort.
"David and I take turns supporting each other," she said.
Each morning, they prepare their daughter Harper's breakfast, and David often handles drop-offs when his schedule permits.
Emphasising close family ties, she says, "Communication is vital. Every evening at 6, provided we're in town, we have dinner together," she explains, noting they have "a fairly traditional family setup."
They make a point to disconnect from phones during meals, ensuring they focus on family time.
Victoria has always aspired to be a caring mother while helping her children realise their full potential and understand their purpose," Beckham expressed.
Other famous mothers have openly discussed the challenges of juggling work and family.
Keke Palmer believes working mothers shouldn't feel guilty given economic pressures. "Ultimately, work is necessary," she remarked.
Similarly, Ayesha Curry feels maternal guilt but doesn't want motherhood to define her entirely. "For me, being married without losing what makes me confident and unique is crucial," Curry noted.