You wont believe which Vampire Diaries stars dated in real life

The Vampire Diaries was a popular show with a huge fan following. It also featured a cast with real-life love stories that kept fans interested.

From happy marriages to private romances. Here’s a look at the stars and their current partners, plus the co-star who had been in a relationship off-screen.

Ian Somerhalder and Nikki Reed

Ian Somerhalder, best known as Damon Salvatore, is happily married to actress Nikki Reed, famous for her role in Twilight.

The pair tied the knot in 2015 and now share a beautiful family with two children.

Both are passionate about environmental work and often post glimpses of their peaceful life on their farm.

Nina Dobrev and Shaun White

Nina Dobrev, who played Elena Gilbert, dated Olympic gold medalist Shaun White.

The couple went public in 2020 and have been inseparable since, from red carpets to adventurous trips.

The couple called off their five-year relationship in September 2025, after announcing their engagement in October 2024.

Paul Wesley

Paul Wesley, the brooding Stefan Salvatore, was married to Ines de Ramon, but they got separated in 2022.

His ex-wife, Ines, has since been linked with Brad Pitt, while Paul has kept his dating life private.

For now, he seems focused on his directing and producing career, keeping fans curious about his love life.

Candice King and Joe King

Candice King, who played Caroline Forbes, is married to Joe King, guitarist of The Fray.

They wed in 2014 and have two daughters together. Candice often shares moments of motherhood, family adventures, and music-filled life with Joe, giving fans sweet peeks into their love story.

Kat Graham

Kat Graham, known as Bonnie Bennett, was previously engaged to Cottrell Guidry, but she has since moved on.

She quietly married her partner, director and producer Darren Genet, in 2022. 

Kat prefers to keep her marriage private but occasionally shares her happiness through heartfelt posts.

The co-star romance 

Let’s talk about Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder’s off-screen romance. 

The co-stars dated from 2010 to 2013, sharing a strong three-year relationship. 

Nina Dobrev and Ian Somerhalder's real-life chemistry was just as powerful as their on-screen love story.

Though they eventually split, both moved on to find happiness with their current life partners.

Proving that sometimes love stories take different paths but still leave unforgettable memories for fans.