Lizzo opens up about childhood insecurity that stayed with her for years

Singer and rapper Lizzo has shared a candid reflection on the childhood insecurity that shaped much of her life, revealing she once believed she was “very annoying” and carried that anxiety well into adulthood.

The 38-year-old Grammy-winning artist spoke openly about her struggles during a recent interview with the Los Angeles Times, explaining how growing up as the youngest member of her family contributed to feelings of self-consciousness.

Lizzo recalled learning to play the flute as a child and jokingly admitted that her early attempts at mastering the instrument were far from pleasant for those around her.

“I grew up feeling very annoying,” she said. “Hearing someone be bad at the flute is a nightmare. And I was bad for at least two years.”

The Truth Hurts hitmaker said those feelings lingered for years, creating an anxiety that continued to shadow her personal and professional life.

“I've had that anxiety shadow me my whole life,” Lizzo explained. “I think I'm healing something in myself — in my inner child — that I didn't even realise I'm healing.”

The singer added that years in the public eye have helped her develop resilience against criticism and negativity.

From internet memes to harsh online commentary, Lizzo said she has encountered virtually every kind of criticism imaginable throughout her career.

“I've heard everything I could possibly hear about me, so nothing can bother me now,” she said.

Elsewhere in the interview, the About Damn Time singer reflected on her past struggles with depression, revealing that music became a source of strength during some of her most difficult moments.

While working on her album Love in Real Life, there were days when getting through the day felt overwhelming, she admitted. Despite those challenges, Lizzo credited music with helping her move forward and remain focused on her creative journey.

The singer also shared her evolving outlook on self-expression, saying she no longer worries excessively about how her words might be received.

“Everybody's offended by everything today,” she said. “Just say whatever you want to say.”