Forever begins now: Inside Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s journey to ‘I Do’

With rumours buzzing about Selena Gomez and Benny Blanco’s wedding, go down the timeline of how their love story began.

Take a look:

February 28, 2019: I Can’t Get Enough

Years before they became a couple, Selena and Benny teamed up on the latter’s song, I Can’t Get Enough, which also featured J Balvin and Tainy.

A month later, the music video was released, garnering a lot of attention on the internet as it displayed a cute interaction between the Only Murders in the Building actress with Benny, who was dressed in a teddy bear costume.

June 8, 2023: Selena teases that she’s single

In a light-hearted clip posted on Selena’s TikTok account for her then-unreleased song Single Soon, the Wizards of Waverly Place alum also announced her relationship status to a team of soccer players.

“I’m single! I’m just a little high maintenance,” she yelled in the clip.

October 4, 2023: Rare Beauty fundraiser

In October 2023, Selena hosted her inaugural Rare Impact Fund Benefit to support youth mental health.

The fundraising event comprised of a long guest list of celebrities — including Benny.

Although the two hadn’t gone public with their relationship at the time, they were already a couple by this point.

December 7, 2023: Selena confirms she’s romantically involved with Benny

Selena officially confirmed the relationship by liking and commenting on her Instagram posts suggesting she and Benny were dating.

She replied to fans questioning the romance, writing, “then why has he been the best thing that's ever happened to me. The end."

To another user, the Wolves singer wrote, “I don't understand. If you actually care about me. This is my happiest. If you don't feel free to say whatever you want. But I will never allow your words to guide my life. Ever. I'm done. If you can't accept me at my happiest then don't be in my life at all."

Selena also revealed that they had been dating for six months in response to a comment suggesting that she was “mad” at her fans for their reactions.

“Not mad. It’s been 6 months’ bb. I will always defend my friends, family and fans till the day I die,” she stated. (Sic)

The following day, Selena posted an Instagram story of herself wearing a special “B” ring on her left ring finger.

December 15, 2023: Selena and Benny go Instagram Official

Selena went Instagram official with her beau by sharing an adorable carousel of photos featuring the couple posing with friends.

One photo captured the couple exchanging a kiss.

December 21, 2023: Selena shares what she needs in a relationship

Shortly after confirming her romance with Benny, Selena’s cover story with Vogue México y Latino América was published.

In the interview, the Hands to Myself singer said she desires a “special connection” with a partner that “allows for self-respect and holds space for the feelings of others.”

She added, “Honestly, I have to start being attracted to the right kind of people, because it’s a bit of both. It’s very hard to find someone who can listen to you and care about you, but I know when it happens it will be great and you will want it to be healthy.”

January 3, 2024: Courtside Date

The couple kicked off the new year in high spirits by attending a Los Angeles Lakers home game, marking their first public outing together.

Selena and Benny were openly affectionate throughout the game.

January 15 2024: Emmys date

Selena brought Benny to the 2024 Emmys, where her show Only Murders in the Building was nominated for best comedy series.

She walked the red carpet solo, but Benny joined her later during the award show.

February 14, 2024: First Valentine’s Day

Selena marked her first Valentine’s Day with Benny by sharing a selfie on her Instagram Stories of them making peace signs.

“I love you,” she captioned the post.

February 22, 2024: Selena gushes over Benny in an interview

In an interview with Zane Lowe for Apple Music 1, Selena opened up about the comfort Benny brings to her life.

“Without getting into too much detail, I think it’s just really important to meet someone that respects you,” she said, adding, “And I think it’s really nice to also lean on someone who understands the world that I live in.”

“I’d have to say overall, it’s the safest that I feel and it’s been really lovely. I’ve only grown through it, so it’s awesome,” Selena gushed.

May 14, 2024: Benny reveals his future plans with Selena

In an interview on The Howard Stern Show, Benny teased future plans with Selena, especially regarding starting a family.

“That’s my next goal, to check the box. It’s always a topic of conversation to me every day,” he said.

July 22, 2024: Selena’s 32nd Birthday

Benny celebrated Selena’s 32nd birthday with a heartfelt post on Instagram.

“i used to play a teddy bear in ur music video and now i get to b urs in real life… happy bday bb! i love u!” he wrote. (Sic)

September 9, 2024: Selena opens up about having kids and the challenges around it

In her Vanity Fair cover story published on September 9, Selena praised her boyfriend and expressed excitement about motherhood, while also revealing her inability to carry children due to medical issues.

“I haven’t ever said this. But I unfortunately can’t carry my own children. I have a lot of medical issues that would put my life and the baby’s in jeopardy. That was something I had to grieve for a while,” she shared.

December 11, 2024: The lovebirds are engaged!

Selena announced her engagement to Benny in an Instagram post.

“forever begins now..” she captioned her post which featured a close-up shot of her ring.

Benny was quick to express love on the post, commenting, “hey wait… that’s my wife”

February 14, 2025: Joint album announcement

On their second Valentine’s together, Selena and Benny announced that their joint album I Said I Love You First is set to release.

“I always trick you guys. My NEW album I Said I Love You First with my best friend @itsbennyblanco, is out on 3/21 … We can’t wait to share this special project with you soon!” the songstress wrote on Instagram when announcing the 14-track record.

March 21, 2025: Selena and Benny reveal that they haven't started wedding planning yet

During a joint appearance on the Today show, three months after their engagement, Selena and Benny revealed they hadn’t started planning the wedding.

“I don’t even know if we have time. I’m actually shooting season 5 of Only Murders right now,” Selena said.

The People You Know singer continued, “You know, he has to do some work stuff, too. To be honest, I’m just enjoying us in this moment, and yeah, then we’ll get to start the craziness."

Blanco added that they hadn’t "even had time to enjoy" their engagement.

April 24, 2025: Prom!

The couple served major goals when Benny gave Selena a prom experience after learning she never attended one growing up.

He also revealed on The Jennifer Hudson Show, “Selena had never been to a prom before, so I thought I’d throw us a prom for my birthday.”

July 2025: Increasing wedding speculation

According to insiders who spoke to Daily Mail, “Selena and Benny’s wedding is going to be a two-day event in Montecito in September.”

Despite the rumors, Benny recently said on the Therapuss podcast that they haven’t set a specific wedding date yet due to their hectic work schedules.

August 23, 2025: Selena and Benny enjoy bachelor parties in separate cities

According to multiple sources, the couple celebrated their respective bachelor parties in separate cities ahead of their September wedding.

Selena was spotted on a luxury yacht in Mexico surrounded by close friends, while Benny partied with his own group in Las Vegas.